Girlfriend to Rated: X

The term “boyfriend” implies “potential husband.” All too often, we see teenagers and even some adults jumping into relationships for the wrong reasons. For the most part, people do not understand the dynamics of a relationship. Many times, people make a commitment to their partner by claiming they are “boyfriend” and “girlfriend.” However, they view a relationship as only a short term obligation. You must understand that if your initial perception of your partner is only to be a short-term “fling,” then you believe he/she is not “marriage material.” Although you may grow to like or even love the qualities of that person, there will always be certain aspects about your partner that complicate your efforts in maintaining a long-term relationship. Consequently, you should not commit to him/her. In this light, you are only setting yourself and your partner up for heartbreak. The idea that relationships are meant to be broken is derived from an immature mind. If you do not see your partner as a potential husband or wife, there is no foundation to preserve a relationship. Today, the terms “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” have adopted an arbitrary definition implying “disposable.” However, you must realize that if you view your partner as “disposable,” you feel that “you can do better.” Whatever the case, if you do not view your partner as “marriage material,” there is no basis for commitment.